There are some practices in the west that makes no sense to an African but we are not telling you to change it, like throwing your parents who took care of you to a care home to be taken care of by strangers after they spent their lives taking care of you. Yes, it is a strange practice to us and our culture. We are not telling you to change! For those saying bride price leads to abuse of the woman, are you saying there is no abuse western marriages every man better is a millionaire cause ain’t no guy buying me or my future daughters or nieces for a cow? I ain’t no never before in history the men could do all the labor building, herding, hunting a woman just did the cooking, sewing, and collecting, have sons.