Who is we in this conversation? The left always thinks their way is the right way. Stop meddling. It’s like proving to your landlord that you won’t have problems paying rent by showing that your income is at least three times the amount of rent due. If you don’t have the money, maybe you just shouldn’t do it. Those who do and it’s their culture need to decide. We do not have that so why ask? Every culture has a set of dos and don’ts that make the knots, they repair or abandon the part of the net that does not work, if it works for the general good but not for one or two or few who cant afford it it’s down to those who are part of that culture to decide what works or leave a gap in their culture. But if you raise children in our culture the western world and you ask those who don’t have a knowledge of what the net is there for you need to open ears and educate them and yourself on what works here in this lake these waters.